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22 August 12

Fall 2012 Break The Silence Tour

Here is a little taste of what we have in store for the fall semester! Each location will hold a variety of venues for the college students and staff, but will begin with one main event, where Nicole will give a keynote, that is free-and-open-to-the-public. If you are interested in attending the main public event, just contact the school for further info:

Sept 18-19, Calvin College, MI 

Sept 26-27, Anderson University, SC 

Oct 4, Southern Nazarene University, OK

Oct 9, Yellow Roses film screening, New Orleans, LA

Nov 6, Messiah College, PA

Nov 13-14, Trevecca Nazarene University, TN 

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1 March 12

SPRING BREAK Common Sense and Safety 2012

Brought to you from my friends at RAINN:

Did you know that college aged students are at the highest risk for being sexually assaulted? With spring break just around the corner, RAINN, the nation’s largest anti-sexual violence organization, released helpful safety tips for spring break.

Whether you are headed to the beach or overseas or devoting your spring break to community service, it’s important to keep your safety top of mind. In addition to common sense travel safety tips like wearing sunscreen and keeping your passport safe, there are some things you can do to reduce the risk and prevent you or a friend from being the victim of sexual assault.

1. Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe in any situation, go with your gut. If you feel uncomfortable or something doesn’t feel right, leave and get to a safe place immediately. If someone is pressuring you, it’s better to lie and make up a reason to leave than to stay and be uncomfortable, scared, or worse.

2. Protect your location on Facebook, Twitter, Foursquare etc. Think twice before sharing every detail of your spring break on Facebook and Twitter. Despite security settings, posting information about your whereabouts or activities can still reveal details that are accessible to the public. Use your best judgment when “checking-in” on Facebook or Foursquare and be cautious of revealing personal information through status updates or tweets with Twitter trends like #SpringBreak and #SB2012.

3. Get Local. Know your accommodation address and the safest routes to and from your local destinations. Have the number for local cab companies on hand and always keep enough cash on you to take a taxi home. Know who to contact in the event of an emergency, such as 911 or local authorities. If traveling internationally, have the contact information for the U.S. Embassy with you.

4. Be a good friend and stick together. Arrive together, check in with one another throughout the night, and leave together. Think twice about going off alone; if you have to separate from your friends, let them know where you are going and who you are with. If something seems questionable or someone is acting aggressively, don’t be afraid to intervene. By speaking up, you may help prevent your friend from being the victim (or perpetrator) of a crime.

5. Don’t let your guard down. A spring break destination can create a false sense of security among vacationers. Don’t assume that fellow spring breakers will look out for your best interests; remember they are essentially strangers.

6. Use your cell phone as a tool. If you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, shoot a quick text for a “friend-assist.” Make a back-up plan before you go out just in case your phone dies. If you are traveling internationally, buy a pay-as-you-go phone or contact your cell phone provider to activate international coverage during your trip.

7. Drink responsibly and know your limits. Always watch your drink being prepared, and, when possible, buy drinks in bottles. If you lose sight of your drink or believe it might have been tampered with, throw it out and get a new one. If you or a friend seem too intoxicated for the amount of alcohol consumed or you suspect that someone has been drugged, get to a hospital.

In the event of a sexual assault during spring break, seek immediate medical attention. In the U.S., call 911 for emergency help or the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE) for advice and support. If you are traveling internationally contact the State Department or the American Embassy in country, to be connected with special services for American victims of crime abroad. You can also register your international trip with the U.S. State Department, to be notified of safety status changes.

Regardless of when the sexual assault occurred, it’s never too late to get help. If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual violence, talk to someone who understands what you’re going through. Help is just a call or click away via RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotlines: 1-800.656.HOPE and online.rainn.org

29 January 12

Breaking the Silence on Abuse & Trafficking in East Texas

This week, Nicole Bromley, author, abolitionist and international spokesperson on issues of sexual abuse and trafficking, will begin her Spring 2012 Break The Silence College Tour with visits through East Texas. She will be sharing her story, bringing awareness, sparking prevention, hope and healing on these issues often swept under the rug. On Monday, January 30 Nicole will be at LeTourneau University in Longview, TX. She then spends a full day with students, staff and leaders at East Texas Baptist University on February 1. 

2 November 11

Reviewing the year, Relishing the semester

It has been a very meaty semester. It’s the first word that came to mind, so go with it. It’s been great to step back out after having spent some time staying in… BLOG POST 1 YEAR AGO…  I am grateful for the past year and the stretching it has brought me and thus the deepening and widening of the message God has given. I’ve been so blessed to visit and speak to some amazing campuses in Georgia, Ohio, Michigan, South Carolina and (soon) Indiana (Taylor University, Nov 16) over the past couple of months.

Sharing from a deeper well of hurts and hangups has revealed a deeper unleashing of healing and hope. God’s Spirit is on the move, college students are passionate, motived and seeking to make change. We are on the brink of something big. I am confident and expectant. :)

Sorry to be wrapping this post up quickly. Hush support groups are popping up everywhere… I gotta get crackin on the group study curriculum! 

29 September 11

September and Sexual Abuse Awareness

September! It’s been a good month. My youngest son turned 1 year old this month (precious) and I was able to speak out about sexual violence in some pretty cool places, meeting some amazing people (inspiring).

A few weeks ago I had the extraordinary privilege of speaking at the nation’s ONLY historically black (HBCU) all-women’s college, Spelman College, in Atlanta. An amazing time with some amazing ladies! I loved being a part of what they are all about and doing what I can to help empower these young black female leaders to make an impact on the world. Such a great trip! Never to be forgotten. And I am stoked at the invitation to return to speak again for Womens’ History Month on their campus. Whoop whoop!

In Mid-Sept I had a special opportunity to share a message for a Sunday morning church service, officially launching a unique ministry, ”Hush to Hope”. I am so proud of Grace Community Church in Washington Courthouse, Ohio—this church has been using my first book Hush along with the love of Jesus to reach out and care for survivors of abuse in their community. The response of the congregation was humbling. God’s power was evident and the timing was perfect, according to many stories I was privileged to hear after. Pray for this church—specifically for this new survivor support group that has begun—we are expectant for a great report!

Last week I did a radio interview for Chris Fabry LIVE on Moody Radio, discussing abuse & the Church, hope & healing. I always love talking with Chris and interacting with his listeners.

This week my family and I traveled to Grand Rapids, Michigan where I had the honor of keynoting a special speaker series on sexuality. Nick Kristof, a “New York Times” columnist and author of Half The Sky spoke earlier in the week and I presented at Calvin College at the end of the week, where the focus was on sexual assault awareness and prevention. 

Tomorrow I share informally in a classroom setting here at Calvin College and then it’s back home with the fam and prepping for next week at Mount Vernon Nazarene University.  

Good start to the fall semester!

May the silence be broken and may the healing begin. Thank you to all who support this work and message.

Nicole

29 August 11

Back-to-School Safety Tips Against Sexual Assault

College aged women are at the highest risk for being sexually assaulted; the majority of rapes are committed by someone the victim knows. Being aware of this risk and looking out for your friends are among of the first steps in staying safe.

My friends at RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), the nation’s largest anti-sexual violence organization, released some helpful safety tips for college students going back to school. Here they are:

-Trust your instincts and be yourself. If you feel unsafe, or even uncomfortable, in any situation, go with your gut. Don’t worry about what others think; your own safety comes first.

-Use your cell phone as a tool. Make sure it’s fully charged before you leave home and if you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, shoot a quick text for a “friend-assist.” Make a plan before you go out just in case your phone dies, so you can meet up with your friends at a specific location at a certain time.

-Be careful when leaving status or away messages online and when using the “check-in” feature on Facebook or Foursquare. Leaving information about your whereabouts reveals details that are accessible to everyone. Use common sense so that someone can’t track your every move. If you wouldn’t give the information to a stranger, then don’t put it on your online profile.

-Wait to let your guard down until people earn your trust. A college campus can foster a false sense of security. Don’t assume people you’ve just met will look out for your best interests; remember that they are essentially strangers.

-Don’t be afraid to hurt someone’s feelings. If you find yourself in an unsafe situation it’s OK to lie. Make up an excuse as to why you have to go. It’s better to make up a reason to leave than to stay in a possibly dangerous situation. Your safety comes before someone else’s feelings.

-If you see something, say something! Intervene if a situation seems questionable or if someone’s safety is at risk. By taking action you can prevent a crime from being committed. Remember you can also contact your resident assistant or campus police.

-Stick with your friends and watch out for each other. Arrive together, check in with one another throughout the night, and leave together. Think twice about going off alone and if, for whatever reason, you have to separate from your friends, let them know where you are going and who you are with.

-Drink responsibly and know your limits. Don’t accept drinks from people who you don’t know or trust and never leave your drink unattended. If you have left your drink alone, get a new one. Always watch your drink being prepared. At parties, stick to drinks you got or prepared yourself instead of common open containers like punch bowls.

-Watch out for your friends. If a friend seems out of it, is way too intoxicated for the amount of alcohol they’ve had, or is acting out of character, get him or her to a safe place. If you suspect that you or a friend has been drugged, call 911. Be explicit with doctors so they can administer the correct tests.

-Be aware of your surroundings. Whether you’re walking home from the library or at a party be mindful of potential risks. Get to know your campus and learn a well-lit route back to your dorm or place of residence. Think of a safe exit strategy.  Are there people around who might be able to help you? Is there an emergency phone nearby?

If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual violence, it’s not your fault. You are not alone. Talk to someone who understands what you’re going through. Help is just a call or click away via RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotlines: 1-800.656.HOPE and online.rainn.org.

(Source: RAINN’s Back to school safety tips)

20 May 11

From Child Abuse Victim to Child Advocate

We are looking for an 18-21 year old abuse survivor, who is not currently enrolled in college, but dreams of the opportunity of a 4yr degree in a field advocating for children.

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If that is you (or someone you know), email us at OneVOICEinfo@aol.com in less than 5 sentences (PLEASE) with this info: Name, age, hometown, schooling completed, abuse background, and dream for the future.

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